Recent Posts by Jon Konen

7 De-Escalation Phrases for Students: The “Double Scoop”

Hand holding up a two-scoop ice cream cone against a pale blue sky
De-escalation phrases for students work best when they name the emotion and offer a choice instead of a command. Seven short lines cover most classroom flare-ups: acknowledge what you see, ask for more, offer a break, give two acceptable options, or change the subject entirely. The behavior usually isn't about you. [xyz_feat_school] The students who…
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Can a Kindness Campaign Truly Change Your School?

"Lincoln's Tree" bulletin board covered in colorful paper handprints recording students' acts of kindness
Yes, a school kindness campaign can measurably change culture: office referrals fell from 418 to 192 in one year after we shifted our daily focus from discipline referrals to public recognition of kindness, a drop of roughly 54%, without making new rules or consequences the focus of the campaign. [xyz_feat_school] After years of digging through…
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